I am sitting here talking to your mom on the phone and we are remembering so many memories...some good...some not so good....and some that are really great...she is having such a hard time...she is having a hard time writing her memories in...so I figured we could share a memory together on here...help her get a start on writing in.
Your mom is remembering our wedding reception...your mom says she has never felt so proud as she was of you that day. She says for doing what you should have done so long before...even though she felt that I was taking you away from her she was so happy. She says she was so happy for the both of us... it was beautiful that day and so perfect...though the food really sucked LOL. Helen stood by her side while we were toasting and cutting the wedding cake and she says Helen felt like she was giving her own son away too.....Helen is having a really hard time with you being gone.
Your mom thinks that we both looked so happy and so graceful....that we just looked like we fit perfectly together and that when I danced with my father her heart was so full it felt like it would burst with joy because I looked so beautiful. And you were so handsome and all grown up and she just knew that everything was going to be okay from there on out. Your mom just feels like that day was just so wonderful...and like my sister said..."it was about damn time!" She is crying now and saying how she was so disappointed when things changed and we seperated.
Your mom is now remembering cookouts with you and Phillip fighting over the grill and who was going to cook...not that either one of you really wanted to cook... each of you just wanted to be able to in charge! She is laughing remembering you all pushing each other out of the way. And how Phillip now says they can't have cookouts anymore ... that it just wouldn't be the same without you there.
Your mom is now remembering how you talked about all the days at the RIVA and how you always talked about being you and I out on the boat fishing, tubing and every weekend steaming and picking crabs.
She is now telling about some famous fights between you and Tina...something about you running your mouth (imagine that one) and Tina flying down the stairs and literally flying off the steps and attacking you but then you got her pinned to the floor...and something about some sort of hammer called the "Buddy Knocker".
And what is this about one night when you were jealous of the attention that your mom was giving Bubby and you stripped your pants and boxers off and went running up the street saying "it's all about Bubby...it's all about Bubby...I don't care anymore" and then came home and tried to climb into the dryer. (Bud...why in the world would you do that? LOL)
We are talking now about how wide open you were...so full of life...how you lived and experienced more in your 30 years than most people do in a lifetime!
And how those last few years were such good good times as a family and that maybe you were meant to come back to WVA so that you could share those last few years with your family and create such wonderful memories for them to hold onto.